Tag: Thunderbirds

Loving Jesus, John 14:15-21 (Easter 6 Year A)

John 14:15-21

At our wedding rehearsal, Debbie and I tried out two different pieces of exit music for the end of the service. The winner was the Thunderbirds theme tune: it had just the right rhythm for walking out.

The one we rejected, for not quite having the right rhythm, was the theme tune to The Simpsons.

I guess if we’d gone with The Simpsons, we’d have had to have served doughnuts afterwards, given Homer Simpson’s love for them.

Homer Simpson vector by BillybobFM on DeviantArt CC 3.0

And I’d like you to think about doughnuts for a moment. An outer ring, an inner ring, and the centre. Because that’s roughly the structure of our reading today. There is one theme in an outer ring, at the beginning and end of the passage, a second them in the verses just inside that, and a central theme in the middle of all of them.

Not only that, let’s remember that this teaching comes from what we call Jesus’ ‘Farewell Discourses’: teaching he considered so important he had to share it before his death.

Specifically here, the theme is ‘Loving Jesus.’

The outer circle asks, what does loving Jesus involve?

Love Letter Free Stock Photo – StockSnap.io Public Domain.

The answer is simple to state: we keep Jesus’ commands. At the beginning in verse 15 Jesus says,

If you love me, keep my commands.

At the end in verse 21 he says,

Whoever has my commands and keeps them is the one who loves me. The one who loves me will be loved by my Father, and I too will love them and show myself to them.

This isn’t the only place where Jesus tells his disciples that if they love him, they will do what he says. He will repeat that emphasis later in the Farewell Discourses.

Not only that, but I have also preached on this teaching from other verses before. I don’t have anything particularly new or different to say about them. I’m going to say much what I’ve said before, but maybe in slightly different words.

Keeping commands may seem a strange way of showing love. We don’t expect our friends to command us. But Jesus our great friend is still also our Lord. He does have a right to tell us what he wants of us.

Therefore, we see this as a special, souped-up case of what we know in ordinary friendships. If we love someone, we want to please them. We please Jesus, our Lord and supreme Friend, by doing what he asks.

In his letter to the Ephesians, the Apostle Paul tells his readers to ‘Find out what pleases the Lord.’ While we may sometimes struggle with his will for certain specific circumstances, his general will is easy to find out. It’s laid out in the Gospels, where we find his teaching. In terms of our general behaviour as Christians, what Jesus wants of us is fairly straightforward to discern. He wants kindness, humility, forgiveness, sacrifice, and so on. He calls us to do these things and adopt these attitudes as a sign of our love for him.

What we can’t afford to do if we love Jesus is just sit around doing nothing while we wait to find out his will. Even if we are waiting and praying about something particular in our lives, we still have plenty to get on with doing that will please him.

We don’t always find it comfortable. Jesus’ commands are often rather more challenging than we would like. Mark Twain once said that it wasn’t so much the words of Jesus he didn’t understand that troubled him, so much as the words of Jesus he did understand that bothered him.

That’s not to deny that sometimes Jesus’ commands need understanding in their context and their cultural background, but I suspect many of us would like to explain away some of his words at times, when instead he calls us to simple obedience out of love.

The inner circle of the doughnut asks not, what does loving Jesus involve, but how can we do it?

Pentecost Free Stock Photo – Public Domain Pictures

The answer comes in verses 16 and 17:

16 And I will ask the Father, and he will give you another advocate to help you and be with you for ever – 17 the Spirit of truth. The world cannot accept him, because it neither sees him nor knows him. But you know him, for he lives with you and will be in you.

How can we love Jesus by obeying his commands when those commands can be so challenging? The answer is that Jesus promises to give us the Holy Spirit.

Now, we shall focus especially on the gift of the Holy Spirit in a fortnight’s time when we get to the Feast of Pentecost. But we cannot reduce the Spirit of God to one Sunday a year. Perhaps we do that, because the Holy Spirit is mysterious, strange, and disturbing to us. We remember the old name, the Holy Ghost, and get spooked.

But this section of John’s Gospel, the ‘Farewell Discourses’, is the part of the Bible where above all the Spirit is spoken of in personal terms. These passages, more than any others, are the ones that justify us speaking of the Holy Spirit as the Third Person of the Trinity. Just listen to the warm and tender way Jesus describes the Holy Spirit in the verses I just read:

Another advocate to help you and be with you for ever – the Spirit of truth.

An advocate is a legal official who speaks on our behalf. Advocates help us. The Spirit is with us for ever and is the Spirit of truth. That’s not a spook to be afraid of, but the holy and loving God to be welcomed.

Debbie and I decided recently that our wills needed to be completely rewritten. We first drew them up when the children were small and we were consumed with questions about guardians for them if we died before they reached eighteen. Now they are young adults, our wills need to be very different in content.

So, we arranged to see a friend we knew from our last appointment. Clare was church warden at the parish church, the Mum of one of Mark’s school friends, and a local solicitor. She dealt with probate when my Dad died. Now, she is rewriting our wills, according to the desires we have indicated. She will provide the words that we cannot. Were we to write new wills off our own backs, the words would be all wrong, and we would saddle our children with untold legal complications after we are gone. But Clare will know the right words for our situation and provide them for us.

In similar ways, Christians call on the Holy Spirit. We don’t have the right words to say, but the Spirit can provide them. We lack the strength to do the right things, but the Spirit brings us the power. We don’t always want to do what Jesus commands us to do, but we can say to the Holy Spirit, ‘I don’t feel willing, but I’m willing to be made willing.’

When we know what Jesus requires of us that would demonstrate our love for him, the Holy Spirit can guide us in the way of his truth and give us the spiritual muscle we don’t otherwise have to do it. The Spirit is always on hand for that, because as Jesus said, he is with us for ever.

Finally, the centre of the doughnut asks what the consequence of this loving obedience to Jesus is:

Understanding Grace: Unmerited Favor in the Beloved CC 4.0

Here is what Jesus says about this:

18 I will not leave you as orphans; I will come to you. 19 Before long, the world will not see me any more, but you will see me. Because I live, you also will live. 20 On that day you will realise that I am in my Father, and you are in me, and I am in you.

The consequence is a close relationship. A life that flows from the life of Jesus. A closeness with him just as he is close to the Father.

In a way, it makes sense, doesn’t it? Take any kind of human relationship – a marriage, siblings, a friendship, or almost anything you care to name. Then in that relationship one person takes the initiative to show great kindness and love. The other person responds in gratitude by finding things that please the first person. If that happens, and keeps happening, those two people will grow ever closer.

This is what happens in the relationship between Jesus and us as well. He has taken the initiative to show extraordinary kindness and love to us, and at immense cost – the cost of his life. Through that, he gives us salvation. We respond as I indicated in the first point with a love that we show by finding out what pleases him and obeying his commands. The Holy Spirit enables us to do this, even when it is difficult, as I said in the second point. As this keeps happening, so we draw nearer and nearer to Jesus, and he comes closer than ever to us.

Is this what we want? To know Jesus more deeply, more closely than we have ever known him? Is this not the best thing we could have in the world?

Does Jesus want this for us? Of course he does. He has made the first move. He took on human flesh. He lived and died for us. He has been raised from the dead and now reigns at the Father’s right hand, where he prays for us. And not only that: he delights in us, he rejoices in us, he loves us before we ever love him, and he calls us his friends. You can be sure he wants that close relationship.

What, then, if we were to delight in him, rejoice in his love, accept his invitation to call him our friend, listen to him, and make thankful sacrifices for him?

The next move is ours.

0

Advent, The Prologue and Relationships: 1, Jesus and the Father (John 1:1-18)

Introduction to series

For Advent this year, I want to explore one of the great Bible passages – the one that above all talks about ‘The Mystery of the Incarnation’, as it is often called in carol services.

It’s the passage we more widely call ‘The Prologue’ – but people of a certain generation must not think about Frankie Howerd and Up Pompeii when I say that!

It’s The Prologue to the Gospel According to John, the first eighteen verses of the wonderful Fourth Gospel, in which the evangelist introduces many of the themes of his Gospel in the context of Jesus’ birth.

There are so many ways we could explore this passage, for there are so many riches there. A friend of mine wrote his PhD on it, and I could easily imagine preaching every Sunday for a year on these verses.

But I’m going to resist that temptation! This is just an Advent series. And one way of exploring the Prologue over the four Sundays of Advent is to take a particular strand in it about Jesus’ relationships. So we shall look first of all at Jesus’ relationship with the Father, and in other weeks at his relationships with Moses, John the Baptist, and human beings generally.

John 1:1-18

I am not the most avid television watcher, but I did set our satellite box to record Monday night’s quiz programmes on BBC2 – Only Connect, Mastermind, and the one that goes right back to my childhood, University Challenge. That was something we used to watch as a family on Sunday lunchtimes – that and Thunderbirds.

For some reason, I still remember one starter question from an early series: ‘Which two books of the Bible begin with the same three words in English?’

Now, leaving aside the awkward issue of differing translations, the answer they wanted was Genesis and John’s Gospel, both starting with the words, ‘In the beginning.’

And that’s where we’re going today – to the beginning, to that relationship between Jesus and the Father that existed before creation and led to creation. I follow those scholars who say that the inner relationships of the Trinity are demonstrated in their actions towards human beings and the world. In the case of the Incarnation, they tell us something about why Jesus came, and that’s what we’re going to explore today.

Firstly, unity:

In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God. 2 He was with God in the beginning. 

Note those words ‘with God’, ‘was God’, and ‘with God in the beginning.’ The Word, that is, Jesus, and the Father are united in fellowship and very nature. Theirs is a perfect and pure unity of relationship. They are one in heart, mind, and spirit.

It is this inner experience of unity that Jesus comes to bring at the Incarnation. It is the knowledge that human relationships with God, each other, and creation are broken that leads him to come. This is not what was intended. Humankind was made in the image of God, the One God in Three Persons who is unity, but sin has distorted and destroyed that.

So when Jesus comes, his is a mission of reconciliation. He wants human beings at one with the Godhead again. He wants human beings reconciled to each other. He wants the alienation of human beings from the creation healed.

To bring this unity will involve a great cost. It will take him from Bethlehem to Calvary, from the manger to the Cross. It makes me think of a Graham Kendrick Christmas song, ‘Thorns in the straw’, where he imagines Mary seeing the thorns for Jesus’ crown of thorns in the straw of the manger.

Therefore as Christians we remember our need to draw ever closer to our God, as we receive the forgiveness of our sins. We remember our need to work for unity with one another, putting right our broken relationships, and finding reconciliation with each other. We remember that our reconciliation with one another is one of the deeds that witnesses to our preaching about reconciliation with God.

And we remember our calling to bind up the wounds of the creation – not out of the desperation many have over things like climate change, but in the Christian hope of the God who is making all things new.

Let us remember this Advent that the unity of Father and Son leads to Jesus’ mission to bring unity. And just as that was costly for him, let us be prepared to pay a cost to proclaim and demonstrate Christ’s nature and message of unity to the world.

Secondly, love:

3 Through him all things were made; without him nothing was made that has been made. 

Jesus is the Father’s agent in creation. But what has that got to do with love?

Let me ask you a question that the famous twentieth century Swiss theologian Karl Barth asked: was it necessary for God to create?

Barth answered that question with a ‘Yes’, and so do I. Here’s why. It’s certainly true that love between people can be personal and exclusive, but it is never private. If two people love each other exclusively but it never touches others for good, how is it so very different from mutual self-indulgence?

Take marriage as an example. The most common way in which a married couple express this love is when they are able to have children. Their personal and exclusive love naturally reaches out in a creative act and they sacrificially love their children.

Of course, I know that many couples don’t want children immediately and others cannot have children at all. So one of the things I do when I prepare a couple for marriage is I challenge them to show the love they have wonderfully discovered between themselves in service of others. Can they do something in their community? Is there a cause they could support?

I think something like that has happened on a cosmic, spiritual scale in the Godhead. Such is the love between the members of the Trinity that it has to be expressed beyond them. The Father creates through the Son and in the power of the Spirit. A universe is created beyond the Godhead for the Godhead to love.

And it is out of this love at the heart of God that Jesus comes in the Incarnation. Seeing the brokenness and lack of unity that I talked about in the first point, it is his very nature of love that brings him to earth. Remember that most basic of all statements about God in the Bible: ‘God is love.’

What I’m talking about here is what Christina Rossetti wrote about in one of her Christmas carols:

Love came down at Christmas,
Love all lovely, Love divine;
Love was born at Christmas,
star and angels gave the sign.

Worship we the Godhead,
Love incarnate, Love divine;
worship we our Jesus:
but wherewith for sacred sign?

There it is: Jesus comes in love because the very nature of the Godhead is love.

And Rossetti also tells us what the only fitting response is:

Love shall be our token,
love be yours and love be mine,
love to God and all the world,
love for plea and gift and sign.[1]

If the Incarnation is about the love at the heart of the Godhead coming to us in Jesus, then our response is ‘love to God and all the world’ – love God and love our neighbour, as Jesus was to say the two greatest commandments were. Even the new commandment he gave was about love: ‘Love one another as I have loved you.’

Howard Thurman, who was a great influence on Martin Luther King, wrote a short poem called ‘The Work of Christmas.’ It says this:

When the song of the angels is stilled,
When the star in the sky is gone,
When the kings and princes are home,
When the shepherds are back with their flock,
The work of Christmas begins:
To find the lost,
To heal the broken,
To feed the hungry,
To release the prisoner,
To rebuild the nations,
To bring peace among others,
To make music in the heart.

Thirdly and finally, light:

4 In him was life, and that life was the light of all mankind. 5 The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness has not overcome it.

At the heart of God’s life is light: purity, wholeness, righteousness, hope. But we have a world of darkness: sin, brokenness, injustice, despair. So when Jesus brings very inner character of God to Earth in the incarnation, he comes as light, the light of the world who ‘stepped down into darkness’[2].

Wherever we experience darkness, Jesus comes to shed his light. It may be the darkness when we know ourselves to be a moral failure, but the light of Jesus’ seventy-times-seven forgiving love draws us back to him again.

It may be the wounds we carry through life that leave us with low self-worth or even a sense of self-loathing, but the hope found in Jesus gives us strength to carry on.

It may be that a particular issue of injustice in the world affects us and we get involved with campaigning but nothing seems to change for the better. I listened to a talk recently by a Christian journalist whose life work it is to expose corruption in the church, but she has suffered attacks and false accusations from parts of the Christian community for her work. She has been tempted to give up, but the light of Jesus keeps her persevering for justice in the darkness.

Or maybe it’s bereavement. Six years ago when my father died, I said that a light had gone out of my life. He had modelled for me so much of what it meant to live with integrity as a Christian man in the world. Yes, he was just two months shy of his ninetieth birthday. Yes, Alzheimer’s Disease had taken his true personality before death took his body, and you could say it was a merciful release. But you know what grief is like. The logical answers don’t remove the pain.

Dad died on 1st August. It was not until Advent that year and reading John 1 that I felt a sense of hope. It was verse 5: ‘The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness has not overcome it’ that made sense of things for me. Jesus gave just enough light in the darkness to take me forward in hope.

Let us begin this Advent with a sense of hope. The relationship between Jesus and his Father may seem like hi-falutin’ brain-bending stuff, but at its heart are characteristics that stretch out from the inner life of God to us through the Incarnation of Jesus. Let that unity, love, and light give us strength and hope.

[1] Christina Georgina Rossetti (1830-1894) in Singing The Faith #210.

[2] Tim Hughes, op. cit., #175.

0

A Brief Sermon For A Renewal Of Wedding Vows

Forty years! How on earth does someone like me, who has been married one fifth that length of time dare to speak some words to you on this day?

As I pondered that question, I felt led back to a particular memory of our own wedding service. No, not Debbie entering the church building to the accompaniment of ‘Born to be wild’ in memory of her past as a biker, with my mother whispering in my ear, “What is this music, dear?”

Nor did I think about us leaving the service to the strain of the Thunderbirds theme music, to the evident delight of my two young nephews who were our page boys. International Rescue might be a metaphor sometimes needed in marriage, but it didn’t occur to me in relation to you two!

Instead, I recalled that the Anglican rector friend of mine whom we asked to preach chose a surprising reading, we thought, for a wedding. It was Luke 24:13-35, the story of the two friends who walked to Emmaus, not believing yet that Jesus had risen from the dead. I didn’t dust down his sermon – besides, I couldn’t find the tape of the service! But it did make me think that I would offer my own thoughts on this story in connection with your own marriage.

As I say, it’s a surprising reading, but it is one about two friends, two companions. My rector friend said that some people think that Cleopas and his companion are a married couple. I’m not sure about that, but whether they were or not, I think there are some encouragements we can draw from the story on this wonderful occasion today.

Firstly, I see a couple talking about Jesus. Cleopas and his friend or companion are exercised about Jesus in the story. Granted, there are things they don’t know and major issues on which they are wrong, but nothing matters more to them than to talk together about Jesus.

And that’s something I appreciate about you as a couple, too. We can talk about all sorts of things, such as the way we compare notes about young children. David and I can talk about computers or football. But what is most important and utterly natural in your presence is that we talk without any sense of being forced or nervous about the central aspect of our lives, faith in Jesus.

In my four years here, I have seen it grow and grow in you. It was always there – our early conversations often centred on your experiences in the past with the Campers and Caravanners’ Christian Fellowship, and particularly the things you learned through your friend Mike Dominy.

But I have seen it increase. I think the decisive time was when you went on the (this is ironic with this text) Walk To Emmaus weekend. Something went up a gear in you then, especially in David!

There are all sorts of helpful things we can learn about what makes a healthy marriage. But for a Christian couple, this is critical. How sad it is when Christians find it hard to talk about their faith, even with their loved ones. But you can do that, and because you can, you have a way of getting to foundational issues about life and faith which surely holds you in good stead in your marriage. If you talk about Jesus, you will be talking about self-giving sacrificial love. You will be talking about forgiveness. You will be talking, therefore, about matters absolutely critical to the health of a marriage.  I see this as a work of the Holy Spirit within and among you. I pray it is something to which all Christian couples would aspire.

Secondly, I see the presence of Jesus with you. Jesus came and joined the couple as they walked to Emmaus. They weren’t aware for quite a while that he was with them. They were unable to identify the mysterious stranger who accompanied them and made sense of the Scriptures. Only in the breaking of the bread were their eyes opened to his identity.

And similarly, you may not be aware all the time that Jesus is with you. I am sure you know it in theory, but there will be times when you do not feel his presence or circumstances will be dire and you imagine he is distant or absent. You would be only human if you were not to have those thoughts and feelings as you live with Arline’s health.

But let me tell you something. People see Jesus in you. They see it in how you live out your lives in the face of joy and pain. They experience something of him, simply by coming into contact with you. Some will be able to say, ‘That’s Jesus’. Others will merely know there is something special about you.

And you may be surprised to learn this is the case. However, it is my experience that it is often other people who notice things like this. I know of a story where a student vacated his room at the end of a term and someone stayed in it for a conference during that vacation. That latter person experienced a particular sense of peace that they put down to the faith of the student who normally lived there.

Likewise, I know a story where the house where a Christian family had lived in was sold. The new residents were Christians. They had an unmistakable sense that they had moved into a property that had been full of prayer over the years.

Today, then, many of us here celebrate the fact that you are a couple through whom we encounter Jesus.

The Rector who preached at our wedding lifted five points from this story. I am going to confine myself to three. My third is about hospitality.

Cleopas and his companion offered hospitality to the stranger who had joined them on the road. It was a natural thing to do in Middle Eastern culture, and indeed still is. It is not something so natural in our society.

But it is something I – and others – have experienced from you. One piece of advice we were given when training for the ministry was that if you are going out visiting for a few hours, save for last a visit to some people who are positive, and who refresh you just by being with them.

Often when I’ve called on you unannounced, you have been my last call of the afternoon for that very reason. Whether times have been good or you have been going through further adversity, I have always been glad that I have had time with you. If it were ever inconvenient, you have never let on. You seem to know that definition of hospitality which goes like this:

Hospitality is making people feel at home when you wish they were at home (Michael Baughen).

It is something we know you have practised in the way you have welcomed international students into your home.  In the New Testament, it is a gift of the Holy Spirit in the case of some people. why? Because it’s a Jesus thing again. The offering of love. The giving of self, of time, of possessions. All these are implied in the act of hospitality. Christians, therefore, can offer hospitality as a witness to their faith. I believe you do.

As I conclude, then, you may think I have described you as far better people than you feel you are. Well – let a friend have this public opportunity to say kind things about you! I am sure you know dark and broken things that I and many others here have no idea about.

But – today we celebrate the love you have shared in forty years of marriage, and which you continue to share. In particular, those of us here who are Christians rejoice in the way you put that love into practice in such distinctively Jesus-shaped ways. I pray that many of us will learn from your example and be inspired by you.

And in doing so, may the Jesus you love and serve gain all the glory.

0

Create a website or blog at WordPress.com

Up ↑