Coffee Shop Discipleship

Here is a beautiful article by an American pastor who works one night a week as a barista at an independent coffee shop. It’s set him thinking about fellowship and mission: the coffee shop is a place where an eclectic group of people have space to relate. The article details his experiment in a Sunday night meeting based on these values.

It touched a raw nerve for me in thinking about one of my three churches. At two there is coffee every week after the morning service, but at my largest church it’s only once a month and then requires negotiation in order to fit with when we can sell Traidcraft goods. Every other morning people dutifully file out within a few minutes of the blessing – except for church officers and some people who rely on lifts from them.

Midweek it has a ‘Wesley Guild’ which attracts about twenty people. Originally in the 1890s Guilds were devised to attract and retain young Methodists. Not so now. It’s very much a programme-driven meeting, with the usual Guild format of four different types of evening: devotional, social, educational and cultural. I guess all sorts of reasons are given for the Wesley Guild movement: because it is not all overtly religious it is supposed to have evangelistic potential. That is fine to a point but it seems to be based on an assumption of ‘come to us’ evangelism, which is increasingly inappropriate in our culture. Our missionary philosophy needs to be incarnational and based on the word ‘go’, not ‘come’. Wouldn’t it be great if Christians got their cultural and educational input by joining local evening classes (even running some) and being salt and light there? As to the devotional aspect, one week in four does not do that much for today’s huge biblical illiteracy in the church. My guess is that Wesley Guilds work best as places of friendship where little else exists, but they do not work so well these days as places of spiritual formation and mission in our culture.

What else do we have? We now have two small groups. One is a Bible study that I lead, the other is a Covenant Discipleship Group where the members hold one another to account for their working out of the two great commandments to love God and love neighbour. Both these groups have the potential for spiritual formation. It’s interesting that both groups chose to meet on church premises, though. As a church we’re not so clued into sharing life together that we do so in homes.

So the American pastor’s article about coffee shop discipleship has become a reality check for me: how are we doing in mission, spiritual formation and life together? Because these are essential indicators of a church’s health.

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Coffee Shop Discipleship

Here is a beautiful article by an American pastor who works one night a week as a barista at an independent coffee shop. It’s set him thinking about fellowship and mission: the coffee shop is a place where an eclectic group of people have space to relate. The article details his experiment in a Sunday night meeting based on these values.

It touched a raw nerve for me in thinking about one of my three churches. At two there is coffee every week after the morning service, but at my largest church it’s only once a month and then requires negotiation in order to fit with when we can sell Traidcraft goods. Every other morning people dutifully file out within a few minutes of the blessing – except for church officers and some people who rely on lifts from them.

Midweek it has a ‘Wesley Guild’ which attracts about twenty people. Originally in the 1890s Guilds were devised to attract and retain young Methodists. Not so now. It’s very much a programme-driven meeting, with the usual Guild format of four different types of evening: devotional, social, educational and cultural. I guess all sorts of reasons are given for the Wesley Guild movement: because it is not all overtly religious it is supposed to have evangelistic potential. That is fine to a point but it seems to be based on an assumption of ‘come to us’ evangelism, which is increasingly inappropriate in our culture. Our missionary philosophy needs to be incarnational and based on the word ‘go’, not ‘come’. Wouldn’t it be great if Christians got their cultural and educational input by joining local evening classes (even running some) and being salt and light there? As to the devotional aspect, one week in four does not do that much for today’s huge biblical illiteracy in the church. My guess is that Wesley Guilds work best as places of friendship where little else exists, but they do not work so well these days as places of spiritual formation and mission in our culture.

What else do we have? We now have two small groups. One is a Bible study that I lead, the other is a Covenant Discipleship Group where the members hold one another to account for their working out of the two great commandments to love God and love neighbour. Both these groups have the potential for spiritual formation. It’s interesting that both groups chose to meet on church premises, though. As a church we’re not so clued into sharing life together that we do so in homes.

So the American pastor’s article about coffee shop discipleship has become a reality check for me: how are we doing in mission, spiritual formation and life together? Because these are essential indicators of a church’s health.

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Anniversary

Yesterday was our wedding anniversary. Debbie has survived me for five years now, which is even greater proof of what a remarkable woman she is.

Normally with just a minister’s stipend and no other major income since she gave up paid work for full-time unpaid work raising our two wonderful children (more testimony to what a wonderful woman she is) we are not able to afford many treats. But last night we managed something special to mark the occasion. Ever since we moved here the word on the street has been consistent about the best place to eat locally. It is the Blue Strawberry in Hatfield Peverel. Even rather well-off friends have told us it’s a nice place “if you can afford it” so we wouldn’t normally have considered it.

Then we heard about their midweek dinner menu, which works out no more expensive than going to a Beefeater. And the food is considerably better. On a Thursday evening it was packed out, and advance booking had been necessary. It has been open twelve years and we well understand why it has such a reputation. If you’re remotely near the area and want a special occasion, this looks like the place to us. Classy food but the service is not stuffy and formal. A big thumbs-up in particular for Debbie’s duck salad and my linguini with chicken and red chillis.

Nothing theological, then, in this post, just a very happy couple of bunnies.

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Lent – Going Without?

BBC NEWS | Magazine | Going without This is an article in the BBC online magazine about Thirst For Life, a project from Share Jesus International that is challenging people in the UK to give up alcohol for Lent. Their spokeswoman Emma Morrice says that we don’t need to work so much for things in a consumer society so so we push ourselves to feel more – including alcohol. We also don’t examine things in detail, she claims, thus missing the damage caused by alcohol in our society. (Not sure the latter comment is entirely fair.)

The article asks a psychologist and a philosopher about the merits of giving up something. The psychologist says it is about showing we can exercise some control over our lives. The philosopher thinks it is about clearing our conscience and demonstrating that we we can be virtuous.

In Christian terms the psychologist sounds closer to the Gospel than the philosopher. Self-control is a fruit of the Spirit. But to prove we are virtuous sounds like what Jesus condemns in the Sermon on the Mount about making a show of our piety (including fasting).

Both contributors, however, miss the Christian notion that this bodily self-discipline is about making sure that Christ and not our appetities is Lord. It is about the devotion of love that will give up something because the Beloved is more important.

Most disturbing, however, is to read the list of comments. So many non-Christians are effectively telling Christians to shut up. Many of the comments read as if Christians are not allowed to campaign for anything. There is real vitriol and hatred of us. Part of that may well be about the reputation we have earned in the past, but it’s also highly worrying that we can’t speak up without being condemned.

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Give Us This Day Our Daily Chicken

From this month’s Grove Books email:
 
The phone rang in the office of the Archbishop of Canterbury. It was Kentucky Fried Chicken.

‘Archbishop, we will give you £100,000 to the Church if you change the Lord’s Prayer to say “Give us today our daily chicken.”‘

‘I’m sorry, I can’t do that,’ replied the ABC. ‘It would mean undoing hundred– thousands–of years of Christian tradition.’

The next week KFC phoned back again.

‘We will give you £500,000 to change the Lord’s prayer.’

‘I’m sorry, these are Christ’s own words–I cannot change them’

The next week KFC phoned again.

‘We will give you £10 million.’

‘I’m sorry, the words are in the Bible–I cannot change them.’

Finally, KFC phoned a last time.

‘We will give you £100 million to change the line.’

The ABC thought hard. The money could help a lot of people; it could make the gospel known to the whole country; it really could do a power of good. ‘All right’, he replied, ‘I will propose the change to the Archbishops’ Council and Synod.’

After much thought and prayer, despite the fact that the words were the Lord’s own, that it meant changing thousands of year of Christian tradition, that the words are in the Bible, the Council agreed to present the change to General Synod–after all, the money could do a lot of good.

So at the next Synod, the ABC stands up.

‘I’ve got some good news, and some bad news.

The good news is that we are being given £100 million.

The bad news–I think we’ve lost the Hovis account.’

 
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Cheese-Eating Surrender Monkeys

Well, that’s what The Simpsons called the French in one of their less politically-correct moments. And I have to admit to having had a few unworthy xenophobic thoughts since the announcement that London had beaten Paris to host the 2012 Olympics (see here and millions of other places).

Maybe now President Chirac will eat humble pie in the form of some delightful British cuisine.

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