Winning

On Monday morning, it was our daughter’s school sports day. Being owed time for working some days off, I took the morning out to watch her with Debbie.

The school had been split into sixteen teams, each representing a country and taking an Olympics theme. Rebekah had been allocated to Portugal.

Wearing her red and green, she was lined up to run in the very first race. We thought she was quite quick. Certainly she is when she runs to school. Off they set. Except that Rebekah didn’t realise what the starting signal was. She didn’t begin running until everyone else was ten yards down the track.

Then it got worse. Her plimsoll fell off. She has very narrow feet. She stumbled to the line, comfortably last. We wondered how she would take this.

We saw the answer in her next race. In the spirit of an egg and spoon race, the children had to balance something on their heads. If it fell off, they had to stop and replace it before continuing. Well, Rebekah was determined that the object wouldn’t fall off. So she ambled down the track, talking happily with her friend Sam. They were oblivious to where they came in the race. They just took in the sunny weather and enjoyed each other’s company.

And so she continued all morning. Whether running, jumping or throwing, she did what she did and didn’t worry whether she was the fastest, highest or strongest. She just enjoyed herself. Her only real distress was that she misplaced her water bottle.

We waited for the head teacher to announce the results. We stood near the Portugal team. China came sixteenth. More countries were announced, until we realised that Portugal was in the top eight. The top five. The top three. Portugal became visibly more excited. ‘They’re going to be so disappointed when they hear they’re second,’ I said.

But you’ve guessed. They were first. The older children were delirious. Rebekah and the smaller ones had to have it explained to them. They were called up to the head teacher to receive their medals. Rebekah was still more concerned about her lost water bottle than her medal. But later the significance dawned on her. When we collected her from school that afternoon, she came out of her class with it around her neck. She hung it on the door handle of her bedroom. Last night I found her sleeping with her medal. Rebekah, who seemed to be a loser, was a winner.

God’s ideas of winners are different from the world’s, as I shared in a school assembly on Wednesday. Not the fast, strong, powerful or wealthy. The Beatitudes make apparent losers into winners. Those who love, sacrifice and put God and others ahead of themselves are winners, in Jesus’ estimation.

I thought the boys might find all this kind of talk of caring a bit girly. So I told them a story. I asked who used Internet Explorer to browse the web, and who was cool enough to use Firefox. Just a few, sadly. But I talked about one of the Firefox developers with Mozilla. I read an interview with him a couple of years ago in .net magazine. He explained his reason for involvement with open source software. It was so that the poor and disadvantaged could have access to the same kind of things as those who shell out huge sums for proprietary software. That was an expression of his Christian faith. I suggested that developer was a winner in Jesus’ eyes.

Let’s reinvent winning. Too often in the church we are tied to secular concepts of victory.

Tough

That’s how ministry is at present. We are bang in the middle of our Chelmsford Christian Festival, my responsibility being to oversee the prayer ministry. In the run-up and since it has started, an avalanche of pastoral problems has hit, like no sequence since coming here. Without being hyper-spiritual, I shouldn’t be surprised. I can’t go into detail here, but it has involved people being hurt, people falling out, people imagining hurt, people facing enormous crises, all in quick succession. I am no demon hunter, but I believe in the reality of the demonic, and believe that at present there is a concerted effort to move my focus away from the festival.

Gobsmacked

Yes, I know, I should be ‘holy’ and call it ‘Godsmacked’, but that it is what it is. Anyway … I have a sabbatical early next year. (Can’t wait.) The Methodist Church is excellent in insisting her ministers take sabbaticals, but doesn’t provide massive funding for them. I had booked two courses: one at Lee Abbey on photography and creation, another back at Trinity College, Bristol, where they now teach the ordinands something about the relationship between personality type and ministry style. Both great courses.

But I had hoped to take another one. I wanted to sit in on a week’s residential at Cliff College to study alongside some of their MA students. I knew that would overstretch the official budget. When I have talked about the sabbatical, I have said that going to Cliff would depend on whether my accountant obtained a juicy tax rebate for me this year. On Friday, I received an email from Theresa Phillips, the postgraduate administrator at Cliff. Someone has paid for me to do the week. I am stunned by this sign of love. I am grateful to God, and to the person. I think I know who it is, but clearly s/he wants to remain officially anonymous, so i’ll keep it that way, with a letter for Theresa to forward onto the person.

I won’t get into all that ‘restores your faith in human nature’ nonsense, but the kindness of God through his people is a wonderful thing to behold and experience.

Silver Wedding Anniversary Address

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1 Corinthians
13

The happy couple had just been married in the church. They
were posing outside for photographs. Happy couple with the best man. Happy
couple with bridesmaids. Happy couple with his parents. Happy couple with her
parents. With his friends. With her friends. With hangers-on and people who
didn’t fit any other category.

The photographer rushed back to the evening reception,
hoping to sell some photos there. But there was one problem. Behind the bride
and groom in every picture was the church notice board. It had a Bible verse on
it: ‘Father forgive them, they don’t know what they are doing.’

I’m sure that twenty-five years ago, Jim and Joan did know
what they were doing! Although if they didn’t, they’ve managed to bluff the
rest of us pretty well! And as we’ve heard those famous words from 1
Corinthians 13 about love, the first thing I want us to think about is that
lasting love requires forgiveness. Love ‘bears all things’, says Paul (verse
7).

The old film Love
Story
had the tag line, ‘Love means not having to say you’re sorry’. What
rubbish. Love lives and dies by whether we say sorry, and whether the injured
party says, ‘I forgive you.’

True forgiveness, however, never says, ‘I forgive you, it was nothing.’ We need to forgive
because it was something, not nothing. We forgive by absorbing pain and
suffering ourselves that we do not deserve to. Like when we forgive a debt, we
absorb a cost that is not rightly ours. Like Jesus forgiving the sins of the
world, dying a death on a Cross that he did not deserve.

In love, it is true that often we hurt those we love the
most. So forgiveness is essential. Jim and Joan will not have come to a silver
wedding without having forgiven each other a lot, and receiving that
forgiveness.

On to a second aspect of love. It has been said that the
bride has a three-part plan for her wedding day and her marriage:
aisle-altar-hymn. Yes, it’s a triple pun. I’ll alter him. But love that depends
on people changing is no love at all. Love is unconditional. Love doesn’t
attach strings. Married love is about two imperfect people coming together and
accepting one another’s frailties. If our giving of love is dependent upon our
loved one changing, then it changes love from a relationship to a performance.
Love becomes unattainable, because only perfection will do. Conditional love is
love without forgiveness. That’s why it’s no love at all.

Of course, this is not to say that we shouldn’t want to
change for the sake of the one who loves us. We should. But the motive is not
to do it in order that our spouse
will love us; we seek to change because
our spouse loves us. When we know we are loved, we want to change. Love is the
greatest motivation for transformation. It is far more effective than
condemnation.

A third and final point about Christian love. When I prepare
couples for marriage, I sometimes ask them what they think they are going to
say in their vows. Often, they reply, ‘I do.’ I then explain – to their
surprise – that only one person in our marriage service says, ‘I do’, and that’s
the father of the bride. Even he might really be saying, ‘Take her – please!’

However, the bride and groom don’t say ‘I do.’ Maybe in
other traditions, but not in ours. They say, ‘I will.’ And they say ‘I will’ for an important reason. They are
making a promise.

Sometimes, loving someone will be a case of ‘I will’ rather
than ‘I do’. It’s great when love is measured in emotions and hormones. In those
circumstances, keeping our promise of commitment is easy. But the feelings and
chemicals are not reliable barometers of love. They ebb and flow. Real love
requires a commitment that remains, whether we feel like it or not. We say, ‘I
will’ in a marriage, because sometimes it requires an act of will to love
someone. I will love you even when I do not feel like it.

Again, it’s the kind of love Jesus demonstrated. In the Garden
of Gethsemane, he asked if it were possible to be spared the cup of suffering. It
wasn’t. He went to the suffering of the Cross out of committed love to the
human race.

I’ve heard it said that it isn’t love that keeps your
marriage together, it’s marriage that keeps your love together. It’s the
commitment, the ‘I will’ approach to the relationship.

Today, Jim and Joan, we celebrate your committed love
through smooth passages and choppy seas. At the heart of it, we thank God for
the love of your Saviour and ours, whose commitment we seek to emulate, whose
unconditional love is our pattern for life and whose forgiveness is the pathway
to life.

Frantic

There will be no new sermon posted on the blog this week or next, due to the upcoming Chelmsford Christian Festival,which begins this Saturday and runs until Sunday week. I’m dusting down an old sermon on the Parable of the Sower for this week. The following week, I won’t be preaching. There will be a big united service for the end of the festival in the morning, then in the evening we’ll be saying farewell to our superintendent minister, who is retiring. We shall miss him greatly.

In the meantime, I thought you might like to know the main programme of events for the festival. Listed below is what’s happening each night in our one thousand seater marquee in Central Park. Please pray for us – and especially for me, as I am organising the ministry of prayer and listening for those who have a spiritual need.

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Saturday, 12th:
YFriday and Electralyte – indie rock gig for young
adults

Sunday, 13th:
Paul
Jones and Fiona Hendley Jones
– concert for the Radio 2 and jazz/blues
crowds

Monday, 14th:
Godspell (Trinity Methodist Church
drama group reprises its well-received production)

Tuesday, 15th:
Local school choirs

Wednesday, 16th:
Tough Talk give their testimonies and Jahaziel, the acclaimed hip hop act,
supports

Thursday, 17th:
Steve Chalke interviews
Henry Olonga, Yazz, Jo Gambi, Cameron Stout and Anne Atkins

Friday, 18th:
‘Amplify’ youth worship event – Steve Chalke speaks and Noel Robinson leads worship

Saturday, 19th:
Steve Chalke speaks
and LCGC performs

Pioneering Ministries

Richard Hall points to a decision by Methodist Conference to set up a scheme for Pioneering Ministries in the Methodist Church. Richard has copied and pasted much of the press release. It’s been hard to find much on the conference website last night or this morning, except I did find the conference report of the Fresh Ways Working Group. This doesn’t contain the resolutions passed by conference, but doubtless forms a substantial background to the decision.

When I first saw Richard’s post yesterday evening, I posted a sceptical comment, fearing that if this was tied to our conventional doctrine of presbyteral ministry, we would end up recruiting people whose focus would be the care and nurture of existing Christians (not that that is a bad thing!), rather than those whose leadership gifts are missionary. I have to say that having read the press release again and the Fresh Ways Working Group, I am more positive. The report notes concerns in fresh expressions about sacramental presidency (not that the question is answered), plus, in paragraph 5.2.7., potential deficits in Methodism’s understanding of apostolicity. (Yes!) It also talks about leadership being shared between ‘laypeople’ (hate that word), and diaconal and presbyteral ministers. This gives scope for bringing a wide range of leadership charisms to the task. Encouragingly, it also notes:

It is thus a whole set of issues which lead Methodists to be wary of fresh expressions – they just don’t seem to fit established methods and rules. Although, as we have seen, it may well be our interpretation and understanding of what established Methodism is, rather than our theology and polity. (Paragraph 5.2.4)

That seems to strike the nail on the head. The report is strong on recovering the pragmatic missionary DNA of Methodism. Doing so could be a painful process, and in some areas take too long for the current urgent context. However, this seems clearly to be a priority: we need a return to a Wesleyan DNA that has been lost, albeit without the unhelpful Constantinian assumptions that Wesley held. That is, in an age when there was still a common national understanding of the Gospel, Wesley didn’t see the need for ordained ministry in the local situation to go beyond word, sacrament and pastoral care.

So I wonder whether we are up for the challenge?

If I have one reservation about the report, and I may be reading in too much here, I note it talks in paragraph 5.2.6 about leadership of fresh expressions being ‘entrepreneurial’. I just wonder whether that’s a helpful metaphor. It risks being consumerist. Hopefully, what they want to underline here is the importance of proactive, initiative-taking leadership.

(By the way, the Fresh Ways Working Group has a blog. Unfortunately, it hasn’t been updated since February.)

UPDATE: Further to Toby’s comment below, the report can be found on pages 13 to 18 of this document.

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Tomorrow’s Sermon: The Gospel According To Jesus

Matthew 11:16-19, 25-30

Introduction
On Friday, Rebekah brought home her first ever school report. I won’t read it out, but let’s just say Debbie and I were two proud parents. We decided she deserved a reward, but unlike one other couple we know at the school who headed to Toys R Us at Harlow, we more modestly headed into town and Woolworth’s.

Now if ‘Woollies’ is famous for one thing, it’s the pick and mix counter. And today’s Gospel reading is something of a pick and mix reading. We hear Jesus’ frustration with those who perversely will accept neither him nor John the Baptist. We hear his joy that the simple, not the wise receive the kingdom of God. In between, it omits some verses about judgment. Then it ends with Jesus’ famous words of invitation:

‘Come to me, all you that are weary and are carrying heavy burdens, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me; for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.’ (Verses 28-30)

A sermon covering the whole passage wouldn’t be very coherent, in my opinion. So I thought I’d better pick but not mix. And I’m going with those closing verses I just read. They constitute, for me, The Gospel According To Jesus. If you want a flavour of the Good News as Jesus proclaimed it, you can hardly do better than meditate on these words.

1. Weary
As a father of young children, working morning, afternoon and evening most days, and then fitting in some domestic duties often late at night, it’s music to my ears when I read Jesus saying, ‘Come to me, all you that are weary’ (verse 28). I know a lot about weariness. When you go to bed late, you can’t catch up the next day, because the children wake you up.

Many other people know weariness. The single parent. The elderly person, whose infirmities keep her awake at night. The person with the second job, trying to make ends meet. Many people know weariness. If Jesus can offer rest to the weary, it has to be good news. What kind of weariness does he have in mind?

I believe Jesus speaks here about a weariness of spirit. Some people know all about that, too. They give, give, give only for church to suck the life out of them and give nothing back. They are running on empty. Church seems tailored to the needs of others, but not them.

I think Jesus has a specific form of spiritual weariness in mind, one that makes people feel they ‘are carrying heavy burdens’. It may be the kind of religious exhaustion I have just described. But it may be something else. Some forms of religion lay heavy burdens on people.

Jesus knew all about it in his day. The spiritual leaders took the Scriptures and twisted the laws of God. One moment they were the signs of gratitude for God’s salvation, the next moment they had become distorted into laws that either put you right with God or kept you in the right with God. Then, if that wasn’t enough, they added their own interpretations. These human traditions became yet more rules. Religion became a list of obligations. Faith was characterised by words such as ‘ought’ and ‘must’. When belief in God is only a list of ‘oughts’ and ‘musts’, a litany of obligations, then it is a lead weight, a heavy burden from which people need rest.

Heavy burden religion, wearying religion is something the Christian Church has slipped into too many times during her history. It is something we practise when we imply that people have to reach a certain standard of morality before they will be acceptable to God and to us. It is the religion I sadly grew up with in the Methodist Church. It said if you were good and believed in God, you were a Christian, but it led people to say they were trying to be Christians. Did they ever know whether they were Christians or not? Probably not, in heavy burden religion.

Jesus says this approach to faith tires people out. It doesn’t bring life, love and energy. It wearies folk. He came to abolish wearisome religion. He came to lift burdens. I wonder whether we feel that weight around our necks. If so, he has come to remove it. I wonder too whether it is a burden we have laid on others. Jesus comes to take it from them, and to challenge us to change.

2. Rest
What is Jesus’ promise to those carrying burdens? ‘I will give you rest’ (verse 28). I just said that he came to lift the dead weight of wearisome religion. We can see him doing that in the Gospels.

So it was that Jesus refused to lift stones to throw at the woman caught in adultery. He knew what the Jewish Law said about those who commit adultery. Yes, it did prescribe stoning. That was the letter of the law. But at this stage, all that would do was condemn the woman. Where might salvation be found? Instead of large stones, he drew in small grains of sand. And as the self-righteous accusers skulked away, he said, ‘Neither do I condemn you. Go and leave your life of sin.’

He invited himself to tea with Zaccheus, who promptly changed his life. None of the condemnation of the clean-living honest people had brought Zaccheus to repentance. But when Jesus welcomed himself into Zaccheus’ home, the man changed. He promised to put right his crooked ways, even exceeding the demands of the Jewish Law in making restitution to those he had cheated.

In both those stories, Jesus knows that strident denunciation of sin on its own won’t do the trick. Condemnation doesn’t bring transformation. What brings a change of lifestyle to the adulterous woman and the corrupt taxman? Grace. I believe they both felt their guilt. They probably both also felt hopeless. How could they change and be in the right with God and their communities?

But this is the good news of God’s grace in Jesus Christ. He comes to save, not condemn. God’s unconditional, accepting love is the ‘rest’ he offers from a religion that has been reduced to a set of rules that no one fully keeps. It isn’t that he condones sin, for in his death he would accept condemnation in our place. Jesus knows what sets people free, and it’s love, not denunciation.

Some of you may be thinking, this is just the basics of the Gospel, I know all this. If so, I’m glad you do. But we can distort faith every bit as much as the people of Jesus’ time did. It doesn’t surprise me when I find people in church, often regular attendees for decades, who are hiding a dark secret in their lives. They are thinking, if anyone here gets to know about this, then no one will love me and I shall be rejected. They live, if not in fear of God, then certainly with a considerable degree of nervousness towards him. So hear the Good News again. Jesus says to you, neither do I condemn you. I am coming to your house for tea. He says, let me lift the burden from you. Find rest in my grace. You are loved.

And if we need to hear this for ourselves, we need to remember it in our dealings with those we are seeking to reach for Christ. We extend grace, rather than expecting them to jump through prescribed hoops before being acceptable. It means surprising them with the unconditional love of God, just as we did in a small way last weekend by telling our visitors to the family fun day that there was no charge for any of the activities or food. Jesus loved people into the kingdom of God and a transformed life: that’s our route, too.

3. An Easy Yoke
As many of you know, I developed a neck problem when I was eighteen. Although the osteopathic treatment I receive for it is improving things, I still do not have a strong neck. I look with some envy on those other fathers who hoist their children up onto their shoulders and carry them. That is painful for me. It is also painful when Rebekah gets over-enthusiastic with her cuddles. ‘Mind my neck!’ I have to say – feeling wretched that I am complaining about a demonstration of her love for me.

One thing I can’t cope with, then, is heavy weights on my neck. Jesus doesn’t want that for us in spiritual terms, either. He promises that his yoke is easy: it is a light burden (verses 29-30). What does he mean?

The language of the ‘yoke’ is significant. It was a metaphor for the Jewish Law. Jews took on the yoke of the Law. But, as I said, the approach to it had become corrupted to the point that it was a heavy yoke. It was painful on the neck, so to speak. You can see the need for relief! Obeying all the Old Testament laws, plus the added traditions of the ages, all as either a means of either finding acceptance by God or remaining in the household of faith – what a burden!

What, then, is the yoke of Jesus, and how is it easier? If the yoke was the Jewish Law, then the yoke of Jesus must be his teaching. He is claiming that his teaching is the authoritative interpretation of God’s will. But how is that easy? Often Jesus seems to increase the demands, compared with those required by the religious authorities of his day. Just read the Sermon on the Mount: how easy is that to put into practice? So how can the yoke of Jesus be easy and light?

I believe the yoke of Jesus is light in this respect: obedience to Jesus is never something we do in order to earn God’s favour. Nor do we ever undertake it so that we remain accepted by God. Obedience to the law of Jesus is something we do out of gratitude. We obey Jesus, because we are accepted, not in order to be so or remain so. The light yoke of Jesus is when we rejoice that we are loved, and it is our heart’s desire to please him. It’s why the Apostle Paul wrote, ‘Find out what pleases the Lord.’ It’s why Martin Luther said, ‘Love God and sin boldly’ – because if you know God’s love, you won’t want to sin, you’ll want to please God.

A friend of mine once told me that the thing that had boosted her self-esteem more than anything else in life was when her then boyfriend had proposed to her. The thought that this man wanted to spend the rest of his life with her was the most astonishing revelation of love to her, especially when she was deeply conscious of her own flaws and frailties. Her response was to reciprocate the lifelong commitment.

That is what the easy yoke of Jesus is like. Looking at our weaknesses and sins, he would have every right to condemn us. But he doesn’t. He gives us the ‘rest’ of holy grace and love. In response, we want to love him back. Because – unlike certain brands of shampoo – he’s worth it.

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Tomorrow’s Sermon: The Gospel According To Jesus

Matthew 11:16-19, 25-30

Introduction
On Friday, Rebekah brought home her first ever school report. I won’t read it out, but let’s just say Debbie and I were two proud parents. We decided she deserved a reward, but unlike one other couple we know at the school who headed to Toys R Us at Harlow, we more modestly headed into town and Woolworth’s.

Now if ‘Woollies’ is famous for one thing, it’s the pick and mix counter. And today’s Gospel reading is something of a pick and mix reading. We hear Jesus’ frustration with those who perversely will accept neither him nor John the Baptist. We hear his joy that the simple, not the wise receive the kingdom of God. In between, it omits some verses about judgment. Then it ends with Jesus’ famous words of invitation:

‘Come to me, all you that are weary and are carrying heavy burdens, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me; for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.’ (Verses 28-30)

A sermon covering the whole passage wouldn’t be very coherent, in my opinion. So I thought I’d better pick but not mix. And I’m going with those closing verses I just read. They constitute, for me, The Gospel According To Jesus. If you want a flavour of the Good News as Jesus proclaimed it, you can hardly do better than meditate on these words.

1. Weary
As a father of young children, working morning, afternoon and evening most days, and then fitting in some domestic duties often late at night, it’s music to my ears when I read Jesus saying, ‘Come to me, all you that are weary’ (verse 28). I know a lot about weariness. When you go to bed late, you can’t catch up the next day, because the children wake you up.

Many other people know weariness. The single parent. The elderly person, whose infirmities keep her awake at night. The person with the second job, trying to make ends meet. Many people know weariness. If Jesus can offer rest to the weary, it has to be good news. What kind of weariness does he have in mind?

I believe Jesus speaks here about a weariness of spirit. Some people know all about that, too. They give, give, give only for church to suck the life out of them and give nothing back. They are running on empty. Church seems tailored to the needs of others, but not them.

I think Jesus has a specific form of spiritual weariness in mind, one that makes people feel they ‘are carrying heavy burdens’. It may be the kind of religious exhaustion I have just described. But it may be something else. Some forms of religion lay heavy burdens on people.

Jesus knew all about it in his day. The spiritual leaders took the Scriptures and twisted the laws of God. One moment they were the signs of gratitude for God’s salvation, the next moment they had become distorted into laws that either put you right with God or kept you in the right with God. Then, if that wasn’t enough, they added their own interpretations. These human traditions became yet more rules. Religion became a list of obligations. Faith was characterised by words such as ‘ought’ and ‘must’. When belief in God is only a list of ‘oughts’ and ‘musts’, a litany of obligations, then it is a lead weight, a heavy burden from which people need rest.

Heavy burden religion, wearying religion is something the Christian Church has slipped into too many times during her history. It is something we practise when we imply that people have to reach a certain standard of morality before they will be acceptable to God and to us. It is the religion I sadly grew up with in the Methodist Church. It said if you were good and believed in God, you were a Christian, but it led people to say they were trying to be Christians. Did they ever know whether they were Christians or not? Probably not, in heavy burden religion.

Jesus says this approach to faith tires people out. It doesn’t bring life, love and energy. It wearies folk. He came to abolish wearisome religion. He came to lift burdens. I wonder whether we feel that weight around our necks. If so, he has come to remove it. I wonder too whether it is a burden we have laid on others. Jesus comes to take it from them, and to challenge us to change.

2. Rest
What is Jesus’ promise to those carrying burdens? ‘I will give you rest’ (verse 28). I just said that he came to lift the dead weight of wearisome religion. We can see him doing that in the Gospels.

So it was that Jesus refused to lift stones to throw at the woman caught in adultery. He knew what the Jewish Law said about those who commit adultery. Yes, it did prescribe stoning. That was the letter of the law. But at this stage, all that would do was condemn the woman. Where might salvation be found? Instead of large stones, he drew in small grains of sand. And as the self-righteous accusers skulked away, he said, ‘Neither do I condemn you. Go and leave your life of sin.’

He invited himself to tea with Zaccheus, who promptly changed his life. None of the condemnation of the clean-living honest people had brought Zaccheus to repentance. But when Jesus welcomed himself into Zaccheus’ home, the man changed. He promised to put right his crooked ways, even exceeding the demands of the Jewish Law in making restitution to those he had cheated.

In both those stories, Jesus knows that strident denunciation of sin on its own won’t do the trick. Condemnation doesn’t bring transformation. What brings a change of lifestyle to the adulterous woman and the corrupt taxman? Grace. I believe they both felt their guilt. They probably both also felt hopeless. How could they change and be in the right with God and their communities?

But this is the good news of God’s grace in Jesus Christ. He comes to save, not condemn. God’s unconditional, accepting love is the ‘rest’ he offers from a religion that has been reduced to a set of rules that no one fully keeps. It isn’t that he condones sin, for in his death he would accept condemnation in our place. Jesus knows what sets people free, and it’s love, not denunciation.

Some of you may be thinking, this is just the basics of the Gospel, I know all this. If so, I’m glad you do. But we can distort faith every bit as much as the people of Jesus’ time did. It doesn’t surprise me when I find people in church, often regular attendees for decades, who are hiding a dark secret in their lives. They are thinking, if anyone here gets to know about this, then no one will love me and I shall be rejected. They live, if not in fear of God, then certainly with a considerable degree of nervousness towards him. So hear the Good News again. Jesus says to you, neither do I condemn you. I am coming to your house for tea. He says, let me lift the burden from you. Find rest in my grace. You are loved.

And if we need to hear this for ourselves, we need to remember it in our dealings with those we are seeking to reach for Christ. We extend grace, rather than expecting them to jump through prescribed hoops before being acceptable. It means surprising them with the unconditional love of God, just as we did in a small way last weekend by telling our visitors to the family fun day that there was no charge for any of the activities or food. Jesus loved people into the kingdom of God and a transformed life: that’s our route, too.

3. An Easy Yoke
As many of you know, I developed a neck problem when I was eighteen. Although the osteopathic treatment I receive for it is improving things, I still do not have a strong neck. I look with some envy on those other fathers who hoist their children up onto their shoulders and carry them. That is painful for me. It is also painful when Rebekah gets over-enthusiastic with her cuddles. ‘Mind my neck!’ I have to say – feeling wretched that I am complaining about a demonstration of her love for me.

One thing I can’t cope with, then, is heavy weights on my neck. Jesus doesn’t want that for us in spiritual terms, either. He promises that his yoke is easy: it is a light burden (verses 29-30). What does he mean?

The language of the ‘yoke’ is significant. It was a metaphor for the Jewish Law. Jews took on the yoke of the Law. But, as I said, the approach to it had become corrupted to the point that it was a heavy yoke. It was painful on the neck, so to speak. You can see the need for relief! Obeying all the Old Testament laws, plus the added traditions of the ages, all as either a means of either finding acceptance by God or remaining in the household of faith – what a burden!

What, then, is the yoke of Jesus, and how is it easier? If the yoke was the Jewish Law, then the yoke of Jesus must be his teaching. He is claiming that his teaching is the authoritative interpretation of God’s will. But how is that easy? Often Jesus seems to increase the demands, compared with those required by the religious authorities of his day. Just read the Sermon on the Mount: how easy is that to put into practice? So how can the yoke of Jesus be easy and light?

I believe the yoke of Jesus is light in this respect: obedience to Jesus is never something we do in order to earn God’s favour. Nor do we ever undertake it so that we remain accepted by God. Obedience to the law of Jesus is something we do out of gratitude. We obey Jesus, because we are accepted, not in order to be so or remain so. The light yoke of Jesus is when we rejoice that we are loved, and it is our heart’s desire to please him. It’s why the Apostle Paul wrote, ‘Find out what pleases the Lord.’ It’s why Martin Luther said, ‘Love God and sin boldly’ – because if you know God’s love, you won’t want to sin, you’ll want to please God.

A friend of mine once told me that the thing that had boosted her self-esteem more than anything else in life was when her then boyfriend had proposed to her. The thought that this man wanted to spend the rest of his life with her was the most astonishing revelation of love to her, especially when she was deeply conscious of her own flaws and frailties. Her response was to reciprocate the lifelong commitment.

That is what the easy yoke of Jesus is like. Looking at our weaknesses and sins, he would have every right to condemn us. But he doesn’t. He gives us the ‘rest’ of holy grace and love. In response, we want to love him back. Because – unlike certain brands of shampoo – he’s worth it.

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Tomorrow’s Sermon: The Gospel According To Jesus

Matthew 11:16-19, 25-30

Introduction
On Friday, Rebekah brought home her first ever school report. I won’t read it out, but let’s just say Debbie and I were two proud parents. We decided she deserved a reward, but unlike one other couple we know at the school who headed to Toys R Us at Harlow, we more modestly headed into town and Woolworth’s.

Now if ‘Woollies’ is famous for one thing, it’s the pick and mix counter. And today’s Gospel reading is something of a pick and mix reading. We hear Jesus’ frustration with those who perversely will accept neither him nor John the Baptist. We hear his joy that the simple, not the wise receive the kingdom of God. In between, it omits some verses about judgment. Then it ends with Jesus’ famous words of invitation:

‘Come to me, all you that are weary and are carrying heavy burdens, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me; for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.’ (Verses 28-30)

A sermon covering the whole passage wouldn’t be very coherent, in my opinion. So I thought I’d better pick but not mix. And I’m going with those closing verses I just read. They constitute, for me, The Gospel According To Jesus. If you want a flavour of the Good News as Jesus proclaimed it, you can hardly do better than meditate on these words.

1. Weary
As a father of young children, working morning, afternoon and evening most days, and then fitting in some domestic duties often late at night, it’s music to my ears when I read Jesus saying, ‘Come to me, all you that are weary’ (verse 28). I know a lot about weariness. When you go to bed late, you can’t catch up the next day, because the children wake you up.

Many other people know weariness. The single parent. The elderly person, whose infirmities keep her awake at night. The person with the second job, trying to make ends meet. Many people know weariness. If Jesus can offer rest to the weary, it has to be good news. What kind of weariness does he have in mind?

I believe Jesus speaks here about a weariness of spirit. Some people know all about that, too. They give, give, give only for church to suck the life out of them and give nothing back. They are running on empty. Church seems tailored to the needs of others, but not them.

I think Jesus has a specific form of spiritual weariness in mind, one that makes people feel they ‘are carrying heavy burdens’. It may be the kind of religious exhaustion I have just described. But it may be something else. Some forms of religion lay heavy burdens on people.

Jesus knew all about it in his day. The spiritual leaders took the Scriptures and twisted the laws of God. One moment they were the signs of gratitude for God’s salvation, the next moment they had become distorted into laws that either put you right with God or kept you in the right with God. Then, if that wasn’t enough, they added their own interpretations. These human traditions became yet more rules. Religion became a list of obligations. Faith was characterised by words such as ‘ought’ and ‘must’. When belief in God is only a list of ‘oughts’ and ‘musts’, a litany of obligations, then it is a lead weight, a heavy burden from which people need rest.

Heavy burden religion, wearying religion is something the Christian Church has slipped into too many times during her history. It is something we practise when we imply that people have to reach a certain standard of morality before they will be acceptable to God and to us. It is the religion I sadly grew up with in the Methodist Church. It said if you were good and believed in God, you were a Christian, but it led people to say they were trying to be Christians. Did they ever know whether they were Christians or not? Probably not, in heavy burden religion.

Jesus says this approach to faith tires people out. It doesn’t bring life, love and energy. It wearies folk. He came to abolish wearisome religion. He came to lift burdens. I wonder whether we feel that weight around our necks. If so, he has come to remove it. I wonder too whether it is a burden we have laid on others. Jesus comes to take it from them, and to challenge us to change.

2. Rest
What is Jesus’ promise to those carrying burdens? ‘I will give you rest’ (verse 28). I just said that he came to lift the dead weight of wearisome religion. We can see him doing that in the Gospels.

So it was that Jesus refused to lift stones to throw at the woman caught in adultery. He knew what the Jewish Law said about those who commit adultery. Yes, it did prescribe stoning. That was the letter of the law. But at this stage, all that would do was condemn the woman. Where might salvation be found? Instead of large stones, he drew in small grains of sand. And as the self-righteous accusers skulked away, he said, ‘Neither do I condemn you. Go and leave your life of sin.’

He invited himself to tea with Zaccheus, who promptly changed his life. None of the condemnation of the clean-living honest people had brought Zaccheus to repentance. But when Jesus welcomed himself into Zaccheus’ home, the man changed. He promised to put right his crooked ways, even exceeding the demands of the Jewish Law in making restitution to those he had cheated.

In both those stories, Jesus knows that strident denunciation of sin on its own won’t do the trick. Condemnation doesn’t bring transformation. What brings a change of lifestyle to the adulterous woman and the corrupt taxman? Grace. I believe they both felt their guilt. They probably both also felt hopeless. How could they change and be in the right with God and their communities?

But this is the good news of God’s grace in Jesus Christ. He comes to save, not condemn. God’s unconditional, accepting love is the ‘rest’ he offers from a religion that has been reduced to a set of rules that no one fully keeps. It isn’t that he condones sin, for in his death he would accept condemnation in our place. Jesus knows what sets people free, and it’s love, not denunciation.

Some of you may be thinking, this is just the basics of the Gospel, I know all this. If so, I’m glad you do. But we can distort faith every bit as much as the people of Jesus’ time did. It doesn’t surprise me when I find people in church, often regular attendees for decades, who are hiding a dark secret in their lives. They are thinking, if anyone here gets to know about this, then no one will love me and I shall be rejected. They live, if not in fear of God, then certainly with a considerable degree of nervousness towards him. So hear the Good News again. Jesus says to you, neither do I condemn you. I am coming to your house for tea. He says, let me lift the burden from you. Find rest in my grace. You are loved.

And if we need to hear this for ourselves, we need to remember it in our dealings with those we are seeking to reach for Christ. We extend grace, rather than expecting them to jump through prescribed hoops before being acceptable. It means surprising them with the unconditional love of God, just as we did in a small way last weekend by telling our visitors to the family fun day that there was no charge for any of the activities or food. Jesus loved people into the kingdom of God and a transformed life: that’s our route, too.

3. An Easy Yoke
As many of you know, I developed a neck problem when I was eighteen. Although the osteopathic treatment I receive for it is improving things, I still do not have a strong neck. I look with some envy on those other fathers who hoist their children up onto their shoulders and carry them. That is painful for me. It is also painful when Rebekah gets over-enthusiastic with her cuddles. ‘Mind my neck!’ I have to say – feeling wretched that I am complaining about a demonstration of her love for me.

One thing I can’t cope with, then, is heavy weights on my neck. Jesus doesn’t want that for us in spiritual terms, either. He promises that his yoke is easy: it is a light burden (verses 29-30). What does he mean?

The language of the ‘yoke’ is significant. It was a metaphor for the Jewish Law. Jews took on the yoke of the Law. But, as I said, the approach to it had become corrupted to the point that it was a heavy yoke. It was painful on the neck, so to speak. You can see the need for relief! Obeying all the Old Testament laws, plus the added traditions of the ages, all as either a means of either finding acceptance by God or remaining in the household of faith – what a burden!

What, then, is the yoke of Jesus, and how is it easier? If the yoke was the Jewish Law, then the yoke of Jesus must be his teaching. He is claiming that his teaching is the authoritative interpretation of God’s will. But how is that easy? Often Jesus seems to increase the demands, compared with those required by the religious authorities of his day. Just read the Sermon on the Mount: how easy is that to put into practice? So how can the yoke of Jesus be easy and light?

I believe the yoke of Jesus is light in this respect: obedience to Jesus is never something we do in order to earn God’s favour. Nor do we ever undertake it so that we remain accepted by God. Obedience to the law of Jesus is something we do out of gratitude. We obey Jesus, because we are accepted, not in order to be so or remain so. The light yoke of Jesus is when we rejoice that we are loved, and it is our heart’s desire to please him. It’s why the Apostle Paul wrote, ‘Find out what pleases the Lord.’ It’s why Martin Luther said, ‘Love God and sin boldly’ – because if you know God’s love, you won’t want to sin, you’ll want to please God.

A friend of mine once told me that the thing that had boosted her self-esteem more than anything else in life was when her then boyfriend had proposed to her. The thought that this man wanted to spend the rest of his life with her was the most astonishing revelation of love to her, especially when she was deeply conscious of her own flaws and frailties. Her response was to reciprocate the lifelong commitment.

That is what the easy yoke of Jesus is like. Looking at our weaknesses and sins, he would have every right to condemn us. But he doesn’t. He gives us the ‘rest’ of holy grace and love. In response, we want to love him back. Because – unlike certain brands of shampoo – he’s worth it.

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The Five Hundred Pound Weekend

Saturday was manic. It’s usually my sermon-writing day, but it was the summer fayre at our daughter’s school. That clashed with with one of my churches running a family fun day themed on the new Prince Caspian film. (And by the way, if other churches are thinking of taking up this theme, Damaris have some useful resources.)

The school fayre seemed to go very well, and it relieved us of much cash in our three hours there.

The family fun day exceeded our expectations. All forty-five plastic toy swords that had been bought at Poundland went, the visiting magician went down well, kids enjoyed fancy dress (one had been in his costume since 6 a.m.) and they loved the arts and crafts and, naturally, the barbecue.

Best of all, people couldn’t believe we’d put it on for free and didn’t want a penny. That was always our intention, but it was made possible by an anonymous donation of five hundred pounds from someone in the church who wanted to ensure that everything was provided free, gratis and otherwise at no charge. I had the privilege of telling the assembled families at the end of the magic show that we weren’t asking for donations, because we believed in a God who offered his love free, with no strings attached.

I finished yesterday’s sermon late at night, and then rushed to prepare a PowerPoint on Sunday for the morning service. It was a service of prayer for healing. We invite people to receive a quiet laying on of hands with anointing oil, and while they are being prayed for, the congregation participates in intercession, and we put the usual intercession topics up on the screen.

Not only that, we were dedicating some new song books. One of our ninety-something members had died a couple of months ago, and nearly five hundreed pounds had been given in her memory. In view of the decades she had spent worshipping God in Broomfield, one of her sons requested we update some of our worship material. So we had replaced our battered old 1990 editions of Mission Praise with the most recent (2005) edition. The stewards gave these out at the beginning of the service, and one of the lady’s grandsons played the organ.

We were introducing two songs that might have been new to the congregation, in preparation for the forthcoming Chelmsford Christian Festival. It had seemed best to have CDs available to play over the PA, rather than play them on organ or piano. Half way to church, I realised I’d left the CDs at home. I only got to church ten minutes before the service, hardly ideal, and discovered then that the grandson was willing to play both! He was excellent, I must say.

That evening, I came back from a quarterly ecumenical service in Hatfield Peverel for an exciting climax to the weekend. No, I don’t mean Spain’s thoroughly deserved victory over a moribund Germany in the final of Euro 2008, I mean something else …

This too involves a death. One of our Hatfield Peverel members died last August. I had only known him as an Alzheimer’s Disease sufferer, but before that cruel illness had struck, he had been a talented pianist. When he went to glory, his widow (who has herself since passed away) gave the church £5000 in his memory. With her blessing, we replaced our ailing baby grand piano with a Clavinova. (And we also had a Hammond organ – though sadly not a B3!)

But the problem was what to do with the now unwanted Chappell Baby Grand? We called on the expert opinions of piano specialists from local music shops. Nobody was that keen to relieve us of it. At the Church Council, I offered to auction it on eBay. Being the only person in that small church with an eBay seller account, and also enjoying playing with my digital SLR camera, I listed it. Last Thursday week, I uploaded the listing for a ten-day auction. It was scheduled to end at 10:20 pm yesterday.

So it was that I sat at the screen last night with some supper, regularly hitting F5 on the keyboard to refresh the page. I had been looking regularly during the ten days. Well over five hundred people viewed it. Forty or so ‘watched’ the piano. Half a dozen folk asked questions, most of which I referred to my musicians at the church, since I am not a muso.

On Saturday morning, it looked like it was all going wrong. Bids had suddenly jumped overnight from £51.00 to £222.52, and this having started the auction at 99p. However, I looked at the feedback record for the woman in pole position, and found that three times out of four in the last year she had failed to pay for auctions she had won. I cancelled her bids, and banned her from ever bidding on anything I sell. Back to £51, then. That guy must have been pleased: his maximum bid was £200.00.

Seasoned eBayers will know, though, that most of the action happens near the end. In the last twenty minutes of the auction, it took off. £155, £165, £222.52 – that figure again – I hurriedly checked the record of the bidder! Until finally, the piano sold for five hundred and ten of our finest English British pounds. If you don’t believe me, click here. The winner was a lady from Staffordshire who had not asked any questions, and like everyone else bidding, had not seen the instrument, even though I had offered in my item description to arrange viewings. It’s a long way and a lot of money. And within ten minutes of the auction finishing, she had paid me via PayPal.

What an end to a frantic weekend! That kind of money will make a difference to our little chapel.Technorati Tags: , , , , , , , , ,

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