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	<description>Dave Faulkner. Husband. Dad. Methodist minister. Pseudo-geek. Music lover.</description>
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		<title>Comment on Regrets, I&#8217;ve Had A Few by Pam</title>
		<link>http://bigcircumstance.com/2012/02/03/regrets-ive-had-a-few/#comment-7227</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Feb 2012 23:33:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[For a Christian, no. 1 should be more about Christ than themselves.  Easier said than done!

And things I&#039;ve learnt about forgiveness:

1. It is ineffable.
2. It does not work to a timetable.
3. It is felt, not achieved.
4. It deeply offends the rational mind.

I&#039;ve been forgiven by someone I love deeply - and it made all the difference to me.
So I guess reaching out to forgive others shouldn&#039;t be so difficult - but it is.  There you have it.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>For a Christian, no. 1 should be more about Christ than themselves.  Easier said than done!</p>
<p>And things I&#8217;ve learnt about forgiveness:</p>
<p>1. It is ineffable.<br />
2. It does not work to a timetable.<br />
3. It is felt, not achieved.<br />
4. It deeply offends the rational mind.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve been forgiven by someone I love deeply &#8211; and it made all the difference to me.<br />
So I guess reaching out to forgive others shouldn&#8217;t be so difficult &#8211; but it is.  There you have it.</p>
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		<title>Comment on The Bishops, The Poor And the TV Presenter by Pam</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 31 Jan 2012 21:50:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I know how much work is done by our church, not only in terms of pastoral care to our own members, but also to the community at large.  I&#039;m certain the very last thing I would say is &quot;Sorry, can&#039;t help ya, you&#039;re not an Anglican&quot;.

 The local churches have many initiatives to connect with, and offer practical support to, everyone irrespective of belief.  I think this is the great strength of our faith and is the most effective means of proselytising.  (My gut feeling only).]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I know how much work is done by our church, not only in terms of pastoral care to our own members, but also to the community at large.  I&#8217;m certain the very last thing I would say is &#8220;Sorry, can&#8217;t help ya, you&#8217;re not an Anglican&#8221;.</p>
<p> The local churches have many initiatives to connect with, and offer practical support to, everyone irrespective of belief.  I think this is the great strength of our faith and is the most effective means of proselytising.  (My gut feeling only).</p>
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		<title>Comment on Mark Driscoll And The Mars Hill Churches: When Discipline Becomes Control Becomes &#8230; ? by PamBG</title>
		<link>http://bigcircumstance.com/2012/01/28/mark-driscoll-and-the-mars-hill-churches-when-discipline-becomes-control-becomes/#comment-7201</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 31 Jan 2012 03:28:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thanks for these articles and these links.

Any kind of &quot;closed system&quot; (adhere to the group&#039;s values and don&#039;t look for support outside the group) is considered emotionally abusive and when these behaviors are applied to a spiritual community, I think the term &quot;cult&quot; is correct. &quot;Correct theology&quot; does not make up for bad behavior.

I&#039;ve read enough to alarm me: harping on about complementarianism, a prurient interest in detailed sexual confessions and a controlling organization all ring alarm bells.

As someone from a spiritually and emotionally abusive background, I can tell from his body language potentially dangerous, but I&#039;m not savvy enough to be able to express this intuition in words.  He is the classic stereotype of the preacher who harps on about adultery and later is revealed to have cheated on his wife multiple times.  I predict his eventual downfall will include both sex and violence against women.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for these articles and these links.</p>
<p>Any kind of &#8220;closed system&#8221; (adhere to the group&#8217;s values and don&#8217;t look for support outside the group) is considered emotionally abusive and when these behaviors are applied to a spiritual community, I think the term &#8220;cult&#8221; is correct. &#8220;Correct theology&#8221; does not make up for bad behavior.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve read enough to alarm me: harping on about complementarianism, a prurient interest in detailed sexual confessions and a controlling organization all ring alarm bells.</p>
<p>As someone from a spiritually and emotionally abusive background, I can tell from his body language potentially dangerous, but I&#8217;m not savvy enough to be able to express this intuition in words.  He is the classic stereotype of the preacher who harps on about adultery and later is revealed to have cheated on his wife multiple times.  I predict his eventual downfall will include both sex and violence against women.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Mark Driscoll And The Mars Hill Churches: When Discipline Becomes Control Becomes &#8230; ? by Dave Faulkner</title>
		<link>http://bigcircumstance.com/2012/01/28/mark-driscoll-and-the-mars-hill-churches-when-discipline-becomes-control-becomes/#comment-7188</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Dave Faulkner]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 29 Jan 2012 15:41:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thanks, Sally, I&#039;ve been reading pieces on and off all week and gradually put it together. While I have to say that our system is far from perfect and I have seen it let through to ministry some people with huge baggage, at least we try to look for it in the selection procedures and I&#039;m glad we do.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks, Sally, I&#8217;ve been reading pieces on and off all week and gradually put it together. While I have to say that our system is far from perfect and I have seen it let through to ministry some people with huge baggage, at least we try to look for it in the selection procedures and I&#8217;m glad we do.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Mark Driscoll And The Mars Hill Churches: When Discipline Becomes Control Becomes &#8230; ? by sally</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 29 Jan 2012 15:30:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[excellent and well balanced post Dave, for me it reveals the value of our selection processes which though they are not perfect do look for baggage and try to deal with it. As for those who have been damaged, for them and for the sake of the Gospel we must speak out.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>excellent and well balanced post Dave, for me it reveals the value of our selection processes which though they are not perfect do look for baggage and try to deal with it. As for those who have been damaged, for them and for the sake of the Gospel we must speak out.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Mark Driscoll: The Christianity Magazine Interview Is Published by Mark Driscoll And The Mars Hill Churches: When Discipline Becomes Control Becomes &#8230; ? &#171; Big Circumstance</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 28 Jan 2012 23:33:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Comment on Mark Driscoll And Jeremy Clarkson: A Blog From The Brits by Mark Driscoll And The Mars Hill Churches: When Discipline Becomes Control Becomes &#8230; ? &#171; Big Circumstance</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 28 Jan 2012 23:33:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Comment on On Making The Most Of Your Life: A Lesson From Bill Gates And Steve Jobs by Pam</title>
		<link>http://bigcircumstance.com/2012/01/27/on-making-the-most-of-your-life-a-lesson-from-bill-gates-and-steve-jobs/#comment-7174</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Pam]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 28 Jan 2012 01:22:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thanks for these recent blog posts Dave.  It&#039;s been great reading.

It is heartening to see someone like Bill Gates acting in a philanthropic way and we all can do our best to change our corner of the world.  I haven&#039;t really thought about what I&#039;d like to achieve this year - in January in this part of the world &#039;holiday&#039; mode is in full flight!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for these recent blog posts Dave.  It&#8217;s been great reading.</p>
<p>It is heartening to see someone like Bill Gates acting in a philanthropic way and we all can do our best to change our corner of the world.  I haven&#8217;t really thought about what I&#8217;d like to achieve this year &#8211; in January in this part of the world &#8216;holiday&#8217; mode is in full flight!</p>
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		<title>Comment on Turning Down An Honour From The Queen by Pam</title>
		<link>http://bigcircumstance.com/2012/01/26/turning-down-an-honour-from-the-queen/#comment-7164</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Pam]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 27 Jan 2012 00:08:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[The Uniting Church in NSW publishes in its monthly magazine the names of church members (and hierarchy) who receive Honours on Australia Day and Queens Birthday.
The Anglican Archbishop of Sydney Diocese (Peter Jensen) lives in a mansion valued at $A15 million, owned by the Diocese.
The Archbishop of Canterbury welcomes royal persons to a royal wedding and shakes their hands and then conducts the wedding ceremony.  Not sure about the plebs though.
And do not start me on the Catholic Church!

I hardly think churches (and I&#039;m a member of an Anglican congregation) condoning/silently accepting this sort of behaviour have a right to &#039;preach&#039; in the public square about humility and not accepting honours from the &#039;powers that be&#039;.  In reading the Sydney Morning Herald&#039;s list of people recognised for various contributions to society there were a number of &#039;religious&#039; people included, who presumably accepted their awards.

I don&#039;t think it is grandstanding for people who have worked quietly for many years in their voluntary work to be recognised.  I would be surprised if many of them would have thought at the commencement of their commitment to helping others &quot;Gee, I might get some sort of award to put on my wall out of this&quot;. If the award is accepted with a recognition it is for the &#039;act&#039; not the &#039;person&#039; then I think there are more pressing concerns for the church to worry about.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The Uniting Church in NSW publishes in its monthly magazine the names of church members (and hierarchy) who receive Honours on Australia Day and Queens Birthday.<br />
The Anglican Archbishop of Sydney Diocese (Peter Jensen) lives in a mansion valued at $A15 million, owned by the Diocese.<br />
The Archbishop of Canterbury welcomes royal persons to a royal wedding and shakes their hands and then conducts the wedding ceremony.  Not sure about the plebs though.<br />
And do not start me on the Catholic Church!</p>
<p>I hardly think churches (and I&#8217;m a member of an Anglican congregation) condoning/silently accepting this sort of behaviour have a right to &#8216;preach&#8217; in the public square about humility and not accepting honours from the &#8216;powers that be&#8217;.  In reading the Sydney Morning Herald&#8217;s list of people recognised for various contributions to society there were a number of &#8216;religious&#8217; people included, who presumably accepted their awards.</p>
<p>I don&#8217;t think it is grandstanding for people who have worked quietly for many years in their voluntary work to be recognised.  I would be surprised if many of them would have thought at the commencement of their commitment to helping others &#8220;Gee, I might get some sort of award to put on my wall out of this&#8221;. If the award is accepted with a recognition it is for the &#8216;act&#8217; not the &#8216;person&#8217; then I think there are more pressing concerns for the church to worry about.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Turning Down An Honour From The Queen by Gracebeyondmeasure</title>
		<link>http://bigcircumstance.com/2012/01/26/turning-down-an-honour-from-the-queen/#comment-7162</link>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Gracebeyondmeasure]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 26 Jan 2012 23:06:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Two verses from God&#039;s Word spring to mind.

(1) And Jesus grew in favour both with God and man.
(2) the Father which sees you in secret shall reward you openly.

I think we have to aware of false humility - God can exalt. God can bless. As long as we always acknowledge God as our source and accept the truth of his word over our life we can never walk in false humility.

I think to about Joesph, Esther  and Daniel whom God exalted.

I think also of Paul who counted his status and social standing as dung in light of the knowledge of Christ.

I think of Saul who had mens honour but lost the annointing of God.

Persue Christ and him alone. He can exalt. He can pull down.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Two verses from God&#8217;s Word spring to mind.</p>
<p>(1) And Jesus grew in favour both with God and man.<br />
(2) the Father which sees you in secret shall reward you openly.</p>
<p>I think we have to aware of false humility &#8211; God can exalt. God can bless. As long as we always acknowledge God as our source and accept the truth of his word over our life we can never walk in false humility.</p>
<p>I think to about Joesph, Esther  and Daniel whom God exalted.</p>
<p>I think also of Paul who counted his status and social standing as dung in light of the knowledge of Christ.</p>
<p>I think of Saul who had mens honour but lost the annointing of God.</p>
<p>Persue Christ and him alone. He can exalt. He can pull down.</p>
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